|
|
Feel like a failure as a man? The job, the money, the marriage that didn’t work out. Here’s why it keeps replaying, and what to do next.
“Those numbers weren’t the verdict of whether or not I’m doing well. But I sure made them one.”
In this video:
– “YOU SHOULD BE A CORPORATE CEO”: the comment from my dad that came out of nowhere
– REPLAYING IT: when you bring it up and no one else does
– BEING THE FAILURE: why some men would rather be seen as a failure so no one asks anything of them
– “I NEED HELP”: the three hardest words a man says, and what they change
If you keep replaying the job, the money, or the marriage that didn’t work out, this one’s for you.
Storm Ready Men is for men who look fine on the outside and know something underneath needs work.
Take the assessment: https://stormreadymen.com
Wives, start here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiZvOR_Cr89rRB_TNyQiPpw/
Timestamps:
0:00 Divorced, in debt, and 26
0:26 Job, income, a failed marriage
1:06 Three big failures by 26
1:39 “You should be a corporate CEO”
2:09 When your family reminds you
2:28 Replaying it when no one else does
2:54 The numbers weren’t the verdict
3:08 Failure is a promise you didn’t keep
3:47 When “I failed” becomes “I’m a failure”
4:32 Shame and pride run on the same energy
4:55 Being the failure so no one asks
5:07 More than a thousand broken promises
5:40 “I said it was all her fault”
6:15 When the pride came out
6:32 She’s not shaming me. She’s hurting.
7:04 When shame becomes manipulation
7:42 That shame was a lie
7:59 ⭐ “I failed at this, but I can work on it”
8:24 What helped me
8:52 “I need help”
9:27 Write down what you did, and what’s next
10:10 Tell one man
10:28 Next time: the storm of defensiveness
#StormReadyMen #failurestory #MarriageAdvice #ForMen
“Southern Gothic” Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
ISRC: USUAN2300004
